[開悟卡] 療育牌組 放下

KEY CONCEPTS:

重要概念：

Releasing past loss and needs; coming into a present perspective; opening to the next step

釋放過去的損失和需求；進入目前的觀點；邁向下一步



If forgiveness is the hardest lesson to learn on one’s own,’ then letting go is the second hardest.

如果寬恕是學習自己最難的一課，放手就是第二困難的。

Of course, all of this can be accomplished easily through grace your Higher Mind, if you are willing to change, find the way out and succeed.

當然，如果你願意改變，找出方法並成功，所有一切都能通過你的高我恩典輕鬆完成。

Letting go heals holding on, expectations, stress arid perfectionism, all of which are based on some picture of, or demand for, how things, others and yourself should be.

放下堅持，期望，脅迫和完美主義，這些都是基於別人或自己應該符合某些形象或要求。

These demands are your idea for What would meet your needs.

這些要求是因為你相信你的想法，會滿足你的需求。

This constantly leads to disappointment or frustration, because no matter how Well you have ‘written’ your script for happiness, it will not succeed with demands or needs.

這不斷帶來失望或沮喪，因為無論你編輯的腳本看起來如此幸福，也不是你真正的需要，所以它不會成功。

Needs secretly push away What they are trying to get, and demands repel and create resistance or sacrifice.

需要正偷偷推走他們試圖得到的一切，並要求，排斥和創造阻礙與犧牲。

You can evaluate the success of your script by looking at how happy you have been in your life.

你可以評估看看，當在生活中的劇本成功時，你有多幸福。

If it has only been some what successful for you, why would you impose it on someone else through expectations and demands?

如果它只是一些成功的感覺，為什麼你會將期望和要求強加在別人身上？

Using the card

使用該卡

If you receive this card, look for what person (or which aspects or qualities of a person), situation or past event you are holding on to which is stopping present success.

如果你收到此卡後想到某人（某方面或某人的特質），情況或過去所有堅持卻沒成功的的事。

Letting go is accomplished by feeling all the feelings until they are gone, or by giving your Higher Mind What you are holding on to and asking your Higher Mind to do it for you.

放手是透過放開所有感情來完成它，或者請求你的高我持有並為你做它。

Letting go allows the mourning process for past loss to be completed in the present.

放手哀悼過去的損失，一個禮物將會出現。

Once you realize that holding on will not Work, your choosing to let go is at the heart of the letting-go process.

一旦你認知到堅持無法讓生活繼續下去，選擇放手將是讓心展翅高飛的過程。

For instance, holding on after a relationship is over effectively ensures there will be no present or future in that relationship.

例如，一段堅持的關係結束後，未來或現在將不會再出現。

But, letting go provides an attractiveness and invitation to carry on the relationship, or to have a new relationship - at a higher level.

但，放手提供了進行關係的吸引和邀請，或另一個在高層次的新關係。

If you receive this card, you are asked to recognize What you think you need, and to let go of it so that you can succeed.

如果你收到此卡，請確認你覺得你需要什麼，放手吧，讓你能成功。