[開悟卡] 關係牌組 權力鬥爭

KEY CONCEPTS:

關鍵概念：

Attempting to get needs met; resisting another; being right; avoiding the next step

試圖滿足需求；抵抗另一個；我才是正確的；避免下一步



Power struggle is an attempt to get another to do things the way you want, so your needs will be met.

權力鬥爭是試圖讓另一個人按照你想要的方式做事，以滿足你的需求。

If you win the power struggle and are able to use the other person in this way, they, having felt that they've lost, will seek to gain control once again.

如果你贏得權力鬥爭，並以這種方式指使另一個人，他們會覺得他們失去了什麼，並尋求再次控制。

If somebody close to you loses in a power struggle with you, they go into sacrifice (see card 11), your relationship will suffer.

如果靠近你的某人在與你的權力鬥爭中失去，他們就會開始犧牲，你們間的關係將受苦。

find you will also be a loser and will now have to carry them.

然後你將發現，你也失敗了。

So, if your partner (in the struggle) loses, you will have to pay the bill.

如果在權力鬥爭中失去了伴侶，你將面對這樣的苦果。

Power struggle is an attempt to be right which arises from a failure to realize that the energies and perspectives of both integrate.

權力鬥爭是一種企圖找出誰是正確的嘗試，那是因為沒有意識到兩者能量觀點的整合。

It is actually a way of turning in the wrong direction in order to get your needs met (turning to your partner rather than taking your own next step).

它實際上是將問題轉向錯誤的方向，以滿足你的需求（轉向你的合作夥伴，而不是採取自己的下一步）。

If you choose to move forward instead, you will reach a new level of understanding; then your partner (who seems to be your opponent) will automatically move up to the next level with you.

如果你選擇前進，你將達到一個新水平的理解；那麼你的伴侶（權力鬥爭的對象）將會自動上升到一個新水平。

Both your needs would then be met in this new level of joining.

你的需求都會在這個新水平裡。

This is the principle of partnership: when one partner steps forward, both get the benefit.

這是合作原則：當一個合作夥伴向前邁進時，全體都能獲得好處。

Power struggle is a projection of a conflict inside you.

權力鬥爭是你內在衝突的投射。

Generated by fear and not having needs met, it actually compounds the conflict within.

生成的恐懼和沒有被滿足需求，構成了內在衝突。


Using the card

使用此卡

If you get this card today, you are asked to take a look at your unsuccessful strategies for success, and now move forward.

如果你今天拿到這張卡，你被要求看看你成功的失敗戰略，現在向前邁進。

Many power struggles are a fight to protect old heartbreaks, but this strategy actually has a way of backfiring and bringing them up ‘in disguise’ in current situations.

許多權力鬥爭是為了保護過往傷心的戰鬥，但這種戰略實際上帶來一種反效果，是在當前情況下的 "偽裝" 。

Any area you are not succeeding in demonstrates a power struggle.

任何你不成功的領域都表現出權力鬥爭。

Many of these may be denied, hidden or so old that you are no longer aware of them.

這些可能被你拒絕，隱藏或如此悠久到你不再意識到他們。

You project out on to your opponent the part of your mind you most deny and/or are most unaware of.

你向對手（權力鬥爭的對象）投射你最大的否認或沒意識到的部分。

Any problem is a form of power struggle with a significant person who may be in your present life but who also reflects someone from your past.

任何一種權力鬥爭的形式與那個重要的人，可能提示了你現在的生活，也反映了你的過往。

Once you realize what the power struggle is about, you can begin to communicate, and to bridge the two sides.

一旦你意識到權力鬥爭是什麼，你可以開始溝通，並聯結雙方。

You can join the other person (this does not necessarily mean you are agreeing with their position), which, in some cases, may mean a joining with the energy of someone from the past.

你可以加入另一個人（不一定意味著你同意他們的立場），在某些情況下，可能意味著聯結過去的能量。

Forgiveness and trust also work well in power struggle situations.

寬恕和信任是權力鬥爭的解藥。

Both energies are needed for success.

兩種能量都是成功必需的。

Resolution of the power struggle brings peace － which generates all good things, including joy, abundance and inspiration.

權力鬥爭的解決帶來和平 - 這產生了所有美好的東西，包括喜悅，豐富和靈感。