[開悟卡] 療育牌組 結合

KEY CONCEPTS:

重要概念：

Re-establishing contact; partnership," achieving a ‘win-win ’ situation; finding the one solution

重新建立聯繫［夥伴關係］，為實現雙贏找到解決方案



Joining heals separation - and there is no problem which does not have separation as one of its core It only in contact that you are successful, whereas withdrawal leads to a lack of success, which means some grievance or pain or otherwise) ‘has backed you away from life.

連結癒合分離，只有接觸才是成功的核心，逃避將導致失敗，因為這意味著委屈（或痛苦）一直讓你遠離生活。

The extent to which you are backed away is the extent to which you are in sacrifice -‘ giving without receiving.

你的放棄是某種程度的犧牲，只付出而不願接受。

Joining brings you out of withdrawal, lack of success, guilt, unworthiness, fear and pain, so you can once again establish contact with the world.

連結停止了失敗，內疚，無價值感，恐懼和痛苦，你將再次與世界聯繫。

In the reconnection, which is an act of love which extents you, you will realize the connection was the truth.

重新連結是愛的表現，你會發現連結上的是真理。

In truth, this connection was never lost or could it be.

事實上，連結從來沒有斷開或失去過。

It is only our unawareness of Oneness which keeps us in In every act of commitment, giving, integrating, forgiving, receiving, trust, and so on, we create a joining, and heal ourselves.

當我們合一時，使承諾的每一個行為，給予，整合，寬容，接受，信任，我們創建連接，並治癒自己。

Joining establishes a mutuality which Brings about the next step.

建立相互關係將帶來下一步。

It avoids power struggle and finds a solution.

它避免權力鬥爭，並找到解決方案。

It releases you from the prison where you have been stuck. By your mutual support with another, and success are assured.

它解放一直困住你的監獄。當您與連結相互支持，成功就近在眼前。

Using the card

使用該卡

If you receive this card, you are asked to make ending the separation a priority and join the other person in the situation.

如果您收到此卡，請您中止分離並加入其他人。

Make them more important than your grievances and hidden guilt, your judgment and hidden sense of failure, your fear and your - all of which cover the distance between you and that person.

讓他們比你的委屈內疚更重要。
你的批判、隱藏的失敗感和恐懼，全部都是你與他人間的距離。

Call them, write to them, visit them, or, if that is not possible, imagine yourself walking the metaphoric distance between you and them until you join.

打電話給他們，寫信給他們，或探望他們。
如果無法實際做到，請想像自己縮短與他們間的距離，直到你加入。

Each step toward them is actually a step out of inner defeat and into a place of and winning together.

每一步都是走出內心失敗，踏入雙贏局面。

Joining lets you know that you are truly not alone, and that there is always one solution - no matter what the problem.

連結讓你知道，你並不孤單，你不是一個人，而且無論什麼問題總有解決方案。